Catch up

Well it has been a busy weekend. To bring everyone up to speed and to get all of the information out of my head...here is what happened.

Well Thursday was interesting. I spoke to my mother at 10:00 am to verify that my brother and I were still getting together with our mother. On my way to my dad's house at 12:00 pm, my mother called to cancel our lunch at 3:30 pm. Fantastic! My mother is always letting me and my brother down. I can't believe she cancelled on
Thanksgiving.

At my father's house, I had to inform my father that Mom had cancelled. He wasn't happy about that. He requested I bring green bean casserole to the dinner. I didn't. My family is not big on eating green vegetables, so I brought home made bread instead. He gave me this huge guilt trip thing about how they were counting on the green beans. Ha! He won't even eat it. So of course he starts scrambling around to make vegetables. During dinner, he asked if I had time off from work. I then informed him that I am no longer working. That went over like a lead balloon. Of course he wasn't happy. At this point, I don't really care if my father approves of my life or not. K is extremely happy that I am home to help take care of the home front. At this moment, K is not wanting anything to do with my father. At this point, I am starting to agree with K.

Well, I left my father's house to spend time with my brother. I didn't like the thought of him being alone because of our irresponsible mother. But also, I felt the pressure of my father to care for my brother. I had him over for a bit. He was so much work. I can't believe how difficult he was being that day. Upon visiting my brother, my father called to inform me that the food and supplies he thought he loaded into my car were loaded into my cousin's car. He brought them to my home and dropped them off. When I was taking my brother home, I realized that I left my purse at my father's house. I then had to go back to Dad's house to retrieve my purse. Of course I had more time to talk to my dad about the lack of a job and of course his perceived idea that K would be upset about me not working. My father is pushing extremely hard for a marriage. At this point, that is important. But what is another year of working on our relationship to the stress of a marriage right now?

S came over Thursday. That was interesting. I informed him that I was off limits, but of course as usual he didn't listen. We hung out and watched a movie. He tried to hold my hand. I asked him why he was trying to do such a thing. Then when he was leaving, he gave me a hug. Which was fine, except he tried to kiss me...inappropriately. Needless to say, I am not interested in seeing him any time soon. He obviously doesn't respect my wishes or my feelings.

Friday was much less hectic. I put an ad online for the puppies. I sold two females that day. I still have the boys.

My friend T came over. I went to school with him. We just hung out and ate a little Thanksgiving dinner. It was fun catching up and reminiscing.

K came home and we caught up over his trip to OKC. I missed him while was gone. Life always seems less hectic when he is around.